I think the avoidance of discomfort, as a natural, documented practice for human brains, has only become worse in the age of Participation Trophies and, as you say, "Good Vibes Only". The people I know who exist in a world of "if you don't like it, just keep scrolling" also seem to be the same people who see a binary world - their way and the wrong way. Thank you so much for always being open to new information, new ideas and concepts, and for sharing your perspectives. For 35-ish years I have cherished your views as a person and this piece is such a treasure to me. Thanks for writing it, and extra thanks for publishing.
I genuinely appreciate your thoughtful reading and response. I agree with what you've said, and also find it concerning. Our discourse sure has come a long way from the days of meticulously trawling dollhouse furniture catalogs together, and I couldn't be more grateful to have you as a sounding board, sparring partner, and laughs supplier.
I always enjoy reading these emails, as I find they challenge me and my perspectives, and cause me to pause and reflect on my beliefs. Which is clearly the intention. Why I am unable to initiate this process on my own makes me realize how often declaring I am too busy would be the reason. Definitely encourages me to evaluate my priorities.
I think the avoidance of discomfort, as a natural, documented practice for human brains, has only become worse in the age of Participation Trophies and, as you say, "Good Vibes Only". The people I know who exist in a world of "if you don't like it, just keep scrolling" also seem to be the same people who see a binary world - their way and the wrong way. Thank you so much for always being open to new information, new ideas and concepts, and for sharing your perspectives. For 35-ish years I have cherished your views as a person and this piece is such a treasure to me. Thanks for writing it, and extra thanks for publishing.
I genuinely appreciate your thoughtful reading and response. I agree with what you've said, and also find it concerning. Our discourse sure has come a long way from the days of meticulously trawling dollhouse furniture catalogs together, and I couldn't be more grateful to have you as a sounding board, sparring partner, and laughs supplier.
I always enjoy reading these emails, as I find they challenge me and my perspectives, and cause me to pause and reflect on my beliefs. Which is clearly the intention. Why I am unable to initiate this process on my own makes me realize how often declaring I am too busy would be the reason. Definitely encourages me to evaluate my priorities.